I hate “girls” who make their problem to another person problem. What the hell are you trying to do? Gain some sympathy or gaining some attention that your boyfriend cannot give? If you had so much unhappiness about your current boyfriend then go consult other people la! Please la... your ex is not a tool for you to complain and vent on all your anger or what so ever unhappiness. No doubt you guys can still be friends but to the extended that that someone you consult to already has a girlfriend and I doubt you will like the fact if the situation is in your boyfriend case. I mean it make senses right? RIGHT! No girls will like it. No matter how magnanimous she is. Venus is in us. You cannot escape that FACT. Please “girls”, do have some shame and move on. I bet you have many other friends which you can turn to. If not, sad for you... or not.
Guys do be more sensitive and stop making up stories. We do have some sense of intelligent. Mind you!